Take the Joy With You!

Christmas 2020
Quarantined Snowman…

Every attempt to write this blog, for the last nine (9) months, was overshadowed by fear, anger, disbelief and sadness. Who needed to hear my take on that crap?

I couldn’t wrap my head around the appearance of being conditioned to live in fear, by hearing death counts and case numbers daily. The destruction of public property and watching the daily murder of innocents couldn’t be our norm, could it? And if we were staying home and working from home, ordering in food, supplies, exercise equipment and entertainment, we would for the most part, make things better, correct? 

Were we being taught to isolate, be quiet and numb?

As a dark cloud hung over everyone, I doubted I’d be working at all this Christmas. I suggested we just do the client’s trees to lessen the time in their homes. But upon arrival, instead of less, all they wanted was “More Christmas” brought into their homes — to repeat, MORE! More Joy, more brightness, more happiness! 

One of those clients was Syd, she always wanted MORE Christmas. Sadly, yesterday her daughter told me she died suddenly.  She had become a very good friend after 15 years and my nine months of numbed-out tears couldn’t be stopped. By the end of the day with the help of a few cocktails, I found comfort knowing she was able to see every room of her home decorated, just how she liked it!  I thought how this was the perfect season for her to leave this world. Syd LOVED Christmas and

she was able to take that Joy with her…

I believe we should all take the Joy of this season and replace our fear and sadness with it.  Replace the darkness with the light we see everywhere.

My hope for you this Christmas is that you find “your” peace and comfort and Joy.  This is one quote where I find my comfort… 

“She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” – Matthew 1:21

Merry Christmas my Friends

With gratitude,

Sheree


14 thoughts on “Take the Joy With You!

  1. Just like Syd to help you see the JOY, She loved you & enjoyed ALL you did for her! Once again your words touch the hearts of all. MERRY CHRISTMAS dear friend. Love ya. Karen

  2. I’m crying reading your blog. You’re right about more! I baked more cookies and treats this year than ever but it was done with a different attitude; I enjoyed making them while listening to Christmas carols and didn’t feel the pressure to do so.

    Syd relied on your keen eye and creative spirit and that gave her great Joy because you put your heart in everything you did for her! She appreciated your friendship!

  3. Sheree..you’re amazing..and spot on when it comes to describing what most of us are feeling about the past 9 months. Sorry about your friend/ client..
    Merry Christmas to you, and may 2020 bring you love and Peace
    Carole

  4. Sheree – what a beautiful tribute to Syd and how much she meant to you along with a very accurate description of our lives the last nine months! Thank you for always bringing JOY wherever you go…that in itself is a wonderful gift! Love you friend…

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